| The impact of extramarital relationships on the continuation of marriages. | |
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PMID: 7643421 Owner: NLM Status: MEDLINE |
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Two groups of practicing therapists were asked to describe in depth a specific extramarital affair with which they were very familiar--whether as therapist, relative, or friend or were themselves involved. Of 62 cases, 21, or 34%, ended in divorce--in the therapists' judgments as a consequence of the infidelity. In 27 cases, or 43.5%, the marriages were preserved, but in an overall dysphoric or negative atmosphere. In 4 cases, or 6%, the marriages were intact but either the marriage was "blah" or empty in quality or the future of the marriage was judged as still in doubt. Only in 9 cases, or 14.5%, were the marriages reported intact and characterized by improvement and growth. Of these, 4 were cases of one-time affairs. Analysis of the direct impact of the affair on the betrayed spouses showed that the majority of the betrayed husbands and wives suffered significant damage to their self-image, personal confidence, or sexual confidence, feelings of abandonment, attacks on their sense of belonging, betrayals of trust, enraged feelings, and/or a surge of justification to leave their spouses. The judgments of the therapists reporting the cases were that fully 89% of the betrayed spouses either were consciously aware of the infidelity or, even if not acknowledging, really knew, and that even the majority of the betrayed spouses who claimed consciously that they opposed their spouses' behavior were unconsciously in collusion with them. |
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Authors:
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I W Charny; S Parnass |
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Type: Journal Article |
Journal Detail:
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Title: Journal of sex & marital therapy Volume: 21 ISSN: 0092-623X ISO Abbreviation: J Sex Marital Ther Publication Date: 1995 |
Date Detail:
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Created Date: 1995-09-21 Completed Date: 1995-09-21 Revised Date: 2004-11-17 |
Medline Journal Info:
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Nlm Unique ID: 7502387 Medline TA: J Sex Marital Ther Country: UNITED STATES |
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Languages: eng Pagination: 100-15 Citation Subset: IM |
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Program for Advanced Studies in Integrative Psychotherapy, Martin Buber Center, Hebrew University, Jerusalem, Israel. |
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Adaptation, Psychological Divorce / psychology Emotions Extramarital Relations* Female Humans Male Marital Therapy* Marriage / psychology* Motivation Questionnaires Self Concept Spouses / psychology* Unconscious (Psychology) |
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