| Facilitated disclosure versus clinical accommodation of infidelity secrets: an early pivot point in couple therapy. Part 1: couple relationship ethics, pragmatics, and attachment. | |
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PMID: 19161588 Owner: NLM Status: MEDLINE |
Abstract/OtherAbstract:
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A critical and potentially polarizing decision in treating infidelity is whether facilitating partner disclosure or accommodating nondisclosure is most beneficial following private disclosure of infidelity to the therapist. Given couple distress and volatility following disclosure, understandably some therapists judge accommodating an infidelity secret both efficient and compassionate. Employing Western ethics and an attachment/intimacy lens, we consider ethical, pragmatic, and attachment intimacy implications of accommodating infidelity secrets. Issues bearing on the decision to facilitate disclosure or accommodate nondisclosure include (a) relationship ethics and pragmatics; (b) attachment and intimacy consequences; and (c) prospects for healing. We conclude that facilitating voluntary disclosure of infidelity, although difficult and demanding, represents the most ethical action with the best prospects for renewed and vital attachment intimacy. |
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Authors:
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Mark H Butler; James M Harper; Ryan B Seedall |
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Publication Detail:
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Type: Journal Article; Review |
Journal Detail:
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Title: Journal of marital and family therapy Volume: 35 ISSN: 0194-472X ISO Abbreviation: J Marital Fam Ther Publication Date: 2009 Jan |
Date Detail:
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Created Date: 2009-01-23 Completed Date: 2009-04-16 Revised Date: - |
Medline Journal Info:
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Nlm Unique ID: 7904614 Medline TA: J Marital Fam Ther Country: United States |
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Languages: eng Pagination: 125-43 Citation Subset: IM |
Affiliation:
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School of Family Life, Marriage and Family Therapy, 262 TLRB, Brigham Young University, Provo, Utah 84602, USA. Mark.Butler@BYU.edu |
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Attitude of Health Personnel Confidentiality / ethics* Couples Therapy / ethics* Duty to Warn / ethics Extramarital Relations / ethics* Female Humans Interpersonal Relations Male Marriage / psychology Professional-Patient Relations / ethics* Spouses / psychology Truth Disclosure / ethics* |
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