Enhance romance by going out with other couples.
Article Type: Brief article
Subject: Husband-wife relations (Psychological aspects)
Husband-wife relations (Research)
Romantic love (Research)
Pub Date: 03/22/2011
Publication: Name: Annals of the American Psychotherapy Association Publisher: American Psychotherapy Association Audience: Academic; Professional Format: Magazine/Journal Subject: Psychology and mental health Copyright: COPYRIGHT 2011 American Psychotherapy Association ISSN: 1535-4075
Issue: Date: Spring, 2011 Source Volume: 14 Source Issue: 1
Organization: Organization: Wayne State University
Accession Number: 258131217

Romantic relationships often start out as enjoyable or even exciting, but sometimes may become routine and boring. A Wayne State University study reveals that dating couples that integrate other couples into their social lives are more likely to have happy and satisfying romantic relationships.

Richard B. Slatcher, Ph.D., assistant professor of psychology in WSU's College of Liberal Arts and Sciences and a resident of Birmingham, Michigan, specializes in social and health psychology. His recent research suggests that spending quality time with other couples may be an important way to improve long-term relationships.

His study, "When Harry and Sally met Dick and Jane: Experimentally creating closeness between couples," which recently appeared in Personal Relationships, investigated 60 dating couples in a controlled laboratory setting. The object was to better understand how friendships between couples are formed and to learn how these friendships affected each couple's romantic relationship.

Each couple was paired with another and given a set of questions to discuss as a group. Half of the groups were given high-disclosure questions intended to spark intense discussion, while the other half were given small-talk questions that focused on everyday, unemotional activities.

"In this study, we discovered that those couples who were placed in the 'fast friends' group felt closer to the couples they interacted with and were more likely actually to meet up with them again during the following month," said Slatcher. "We also learned that these same couples felt that this friendship put a spark in their own relationships, and they felt much closer to their romantic partners."

Wayne State University (2011, February 14). Enhance your romance: Wayne State study shows that going out with other couples may be good for /enhance-your-romance-wayne-state-study-shows
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