Dreaming Arrival.
Author: Willig, Carla
Pub Date: 01/01/2009
Publication: Name: Existential Analysis Publisher: Society for Existential Analysis Audience: Academic Format: Magazine/Journal Subject: Psychology and mental health Copyright: COPYRIGHT 2009 Society for Existential Analysis ISSN: 1752-5616
Issue: Date: Jan, 2009 Source Volume: 20 Source Issue: 1
Accession Number: 196305889
Full Text: Dreaming Arrival

John Welch. (2008). Shearsman Books. 11.95 [pounds sterling].

In Dreaming Arrival John Welch reflects on (his) life, his experience of psychotherapy and the process of writing. Welch's text offers many interesting insights, observations and reflections on the experience of one man's being in his world. It is a fascinating and absorbing read for many reasons and in many ways. However, there are three features of the book, in particular, which stood out for me and which I would like to explore further in this review. These include the way in which Welch's style of writing mirrors the therapeutic process, the phenomenological quality of the account, and finally his reflections on the double-edged nature of writing.

Although Welch reflects on his experience of psychoanalytic psychotherapy, his account does not present a narrative which traces his distress to its root cause and documents the process of recovery through psychotherapy. It is not a psychoanalytic detective story with a beginning, a middle and an end. Instead, the book is written in a way that reflects the open-ended, meditative, sometimes circular, meandering, tentative yet intense quality of the therapeutic experience. The reader is witnessing a process of visiting and re-visiting memories within different contexts and from different angles. Meanings emerge, evolve, and revolve around one another, and slowly and almost imperceptibly we get to know (something about) Welch and his life. Most of the time, I felt as though I was not really meant to be there, as though the book had not been written with a reader in mind. There is no attempt at providing explanations or justifications in order to win the reader's sympathy. Welch appears to be as honest with the reader as he is with himself. He also stays with what presents itself to him, focusing on the 'how' rather than the 'why'. It is an unusual book and reading it is an unusual experience.

Welch is extremely good at evoking settings; he brings to life his physical environment in such a way that we feel that we are literally 'with him' as he walks the streets and parks of London, allowing his surroundings to set off trains of thought and associations which over the course of the book's 200-odd pages map out a territory which constitutes his life world. It is a phenomenological world made up of pavements, birds, sunlight and memories. Welch is also a poet and his ability to use words to evoke a sense of place, a mood, an ambience, allows him to circumvent conventional storytelling and to invite the reader into his experience in a way that is rare and that I experienced as both fascinating and somewhat unsettling as I did not always want to 'be there'.

The process of writing--its meanings, functions, consequences- are a major theme throughout the book. Welch is reflecting on the ways in which writing (in his case, poetry) has structured his experience of being in the world from an early age. He acknowledges that writing this book has shaped his experience of psychotherapy (he was planning to write it and kept notes throughout the process) and, perhaps more significantly, that the book (the fact that he wrote it and the way it is written) expresses something fundamental about the way in which he experiences himself and his world- namely as an observer, conscious of himself watching but uncertain about where (if anywhere) he fits into the picture.

Welch's reflections on writing are fascinating. He moves beyond the widely acknowledged 'healing function' of (autobiographical) writing (e.g. Philips et al., 1999; Hunt, 2000; Bolton et al., 2004) and confronts its 'darker' side. Writing has variously been described 'as therapy, as healing, as salvation, as redemption, as mourning, as deferral, as reparation' (Stacey, 1997: 241). Emphasis tends to be placed upon the beneficial functions of writing about traumatic experiences whereby a sense of control can be gained over such events by giving them meaning. Whilst Welch acknowledges and indeed celebrates the feelings of autonomy and freedom which writing can provide him with1, he also observes its distancing function, the way in which writing as a project has lead him to position himself outside of events, even the events of his own life. He experiences a sense of not really being 'there' throughout his life, and in this book he explores this feeling and its connection with writing. He comes to think of 'writing as the marking off of a 'secret' area' which became 'a sort of solution' to him when he started to write poetry in his mid-teens. He writes '[T]otal outward compliance and inner freedom was the trick I tried, with silent ferocious determination, to pull off' (p. 195). Welch explores the paradox of how trying to preserve a sense of self through writing (' 'I' can only be propped up like this, a sort of membrane that needs all these words to strengthen it, or it will be taken over, like [the] ruins taken over by the grass' p. 106) can result in a loss of presence, of being-there in the world ('The breath that stirs inside the habit of language- it can end up being buried beneath the language' p. 159). The very act of writing objectifies the experience and thus separates the author from its immediacy. Welch observes that his experience of psychotherapy reflects this and he writes with characteristic frankness, 'And the writing? It is still my calm fortress. Over the weekend I do my 'personal writing', communing with a sheet of paper. In front of this mirror I groom myself so that, by the time the session arrives on Monday afternoon, I am quite calm and ready' (p. 182). Writing seems to be both the solution and the problem. It is as if Welch is trying to (re)create himself every time he writes a poem.

He writes,

Welch identifies a 'double movement' in language whereby 'language sends us away from the world and in the same moment is calling us back' (p. 197). There is an 'impossible promise' in language in general, and in poetry in particular, which suggests that it can bridge the gap between self and world which it has created in the first place. Welch's therapist remains a constant but elusive presence throughout the book. We hear about the setting in which the therapy sessions took place and Welch's journey to and from the sessions feature repeatedly. Occasionally a citation of a brief comment or question offered by the therapist constitutes the point of departure for a reflective sequence. Welch continues to question his experience of psychotherapy and whilst some of his reflections evoke psychodynamic and Lacanian concepts, there is no sense in which Welch presents himself as a convert to any particular school of psychotherapy. Towards the end of the book, he indicates that for him the purpose of psychotherapy is to 'occupy his own past, but on different terms'. He writes, 'It is as if the angle changes, the light on the landscape alters as it all swings round, and I see it 'in a new light'. I am not remembering anything I had forgotten. I am just here exactly where I have always been. It is simply that I start to tell myself a different story' (p. 190).


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Hunt, C. (2000). Therapeutic Dimensions of Autobiography in Creative Writing. London: Jessica Kingsley.

Philips, D., Penman, D. and Linnington, L. (1999). Writing Well. Creative Writing and Mental Health. London: Jessica Kingsley.

Stacey, J. (1997). Teratologies. A Cultural Study of Cancer. London: Routledge.

(1) For example, he describes, "[W]aking early, watching the swifts sweeping across the sky, their flight punctuated by shrill screams, I experience that sense of complete autonomy. It resembles the absolute purity of bird flight crossing and recrossing the sky above the city. It's that hopefulness, the moment of it a sudden lifting like a bird lifting into the air, the words its wings. It's the thought that there is this-to-be-written, this is the hopeful part of me, the flight of it. There's the act of reaching out in an attempt to identify something that is so elusive, always liable to be moving away and just out of reach, the bird a living creature more 'other' than an animal is, the naming an attempt to be there where that creature is, eye and name resting on it for a moment before it darts away. So, first thing in the morning carrying this sense of self like something held in a cup, taking it over the floor patched with early morning sunlight and upstairs to my room, while the others are still sleeping" (p. 202).
Do I believe that all the poems I write are one and the same poem?
   Something has to be given birth to, right there in the language.
   Starting from the inside I try to work outwards, like an embryo
   eating its way through the egg. Like a grub. I have to make and
   consume this word-food--making and consuming appear to be the same
   thing- and eat my way out. So I can stand on my branch, wave my
   wings about and move on until the next time
   (p. 161).
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